Ever had a moment where you thought how your life would be different if this happened instead what actually happened? What your life would be if you decided that path instead of the one you on?
We all have had moments in our life where we think if we just changed this or if I decided this instead my life would be different. When I was younger(12-16 years old) I always thought this. I somehow convinced myself that I always picked the wrong choice and that I chose it I get punished and things will always go wrong. I’m not sure exactly why I thought that, but I don’t regret it as it has made me who I am today.
I was watching Grey’s Anatomy a month ago and I watched an episode that was named what if. The episode was basically about if something else happened in there lives what would happen. Short story in the end each character still ended up where they already are.
No matter what path we take, no matter what decision we make, we will always end up exactly were we are suppose to be. Even if we take the wrong turn, we are just taking a detour. It may take longer then expected, but we will make it. It doesn’t matter what I’ve been through and doesn’t matter what I do now because at the end of the day I am suppose to be exactly where I am in my life. Don’t ever question why something happens to you, there is a reason you may not see it now but you will soon enough! Don’t worry, stress less, have lots of fun, enjoy life, make as much time with loved ones, and tell them how much they mean to you!
For the last few weeks I have been thinking of ways to help or do surprises for others without them knowing. I use to do this all the time and it felt so good to see smiles on peoples faces and seeing the great reactions form people. I wanted to do more. I didn’t know exactly how until I saw a few posts on Facebook. I liked the idea, but not for Facebook. Instead I am going to use it on my Instagram and this blog. This is how it works…
To start this year off in a loving way I’m participating in this Pay-It-Forward initiative. The first 5 people to comment on this status with “I’m In” will receive a surprise from me at some point this calendar year – anything from a book, something homemade, a postcard, absolutely any kind of surprise! There will be no warning and it will happen when the mood comes over me and I find something that I believe would suit you and make you happy. Let’s do more nice and loving things for each other in 2014, without any reason other than to make your life more enjoyable. Here’s to a more enjoyable and love filled year. If I don’t have your mailing address I will message you to get that info. Good luck to the first 5.
I love this idea so much and each year I will do this. If you also want to start this you can copy and paste it. Let’s spread love and stop the hate. Hate gives us just as much energy to give love, so why hate?
When your in high school you see all these people who will go so far in life. They have all this potential and you just know they will make it far. Then three years later it’s the total opposite of where you thought they would be and not in a good way.
When I was in high school everyone was friends with everyone. The smart kids were the cheerleaders or football players. Our class was not what most high schools are portrayed as. A lot of my friends were in cheer, dancing, or ap classes. Most of them I knew were going to be big in whatever they were going in within the next few years.
After high school I lost contact with basically everyone, but still had them as a friend on Facebook. It’s been over 4 years since I have graduated (wow can’t believe it’s been that long already) and most of the people I talked to either have kids and don’t go to school or work at a fast food place. It’s crazy how 4 years can change someone’s life.
The crazy thing is these people had so much potential and now have thrown it away. Don’t get me wrong some are great parents and kudos to you for having kids at a young age, but I don’t understand it. The reason I don’t is because I know I can’t take care of myself financially and thinking of having a kid in the mix is just even worse. The saddest thing is some have 2-3 kids and most all have different baby daddies.
Our generation and the next generations are getting worse and worse. If your not ready to have a kid and can not support yourself don’t have kids. Do you and succeed in life then bring in a child and make sure you won’t struggle. Remember whatever you go through it’s worse for a child to go through.
On December 7, 2013 I got really sick. I’m not sure what exactly happened, but that day I changed my eating style. Instead of going all out healthy and knowing I will crash within a few weeks, I decided to take one leap and change one thing to getting towards eating healthy. I gave up fast food and haven’t touched it since.
It was very hard for me as I ate fast good 3-4 times a week. I was so addicted to it that I didn’t even realize how much I ate it until I got sick. I knew this was my toughest challenge and if I could overcome this I can overcome anything. Once I cut it off it was harder for me to figure out what to eat as I always took the easy way out and just went to Burger King or McDonald’s.
Looking back I’m glad I started this because I feel so much better now. It is still hard a few days, but it does get easier. After 3 months I will begin on another step on going healthy. We all take the steps differently and can’t force anyone to do something they don’t want to do and this was my step! I’m so proud of myself of self control.
2013 had its ups and down. Came and left so quickly. My favorite moments are being with my family like coming home from work in the summer time and seeing my cousin just chilling on my bed to family dinners to scaring my sista every 5 seconds to picking up my sista from the airport. 2013 was an okay year and I can’t wait to see what 2014 has in store for me. I’m so blessed and grateful to be here and see what happens next.
Every year we make resolutions that we can’t keep. I never make them until recently I have been thinking instead of always saying “new year new me or I’m going to start working out” which only last a week, I will say something that I will follow and set goals. So this year something I am going to do is work on not allowing negative people get to me. It will be tough that a lot of people are negative to world and others, but I will not allow it to face me. I will stand up to people and be positive. What is your New Years resolution?
It always takes me a while to write and to post something on here because I never write everything at once. I do that rarely, more than half the time I write a little then comeback to it a few hours later. I let my brain to rest and re track my thoughts. It’s a process for me and I actually like that because once I re-read what I wrote I get new ideas and a better outcome. Preview of what’s coming up! One of many!(:
How do you stay strong on something you believe and everyone around you throws it in your face? What do you do when someone tells you your not good enough or your an idiot for doing that or that what your doing is effecting their own life and your ruining them? What are you suppose to do? Run and hide, stop what your doing, do what makes everyone happy, stop believing and give up?!
Everyone around you will put you down no matter what. When you change something in your life and someone doesn’t agree with you will do everything in their power to put you down. Sometimes it’s a family member, a friend, your loved one. You need to remember life is too short and you can’t always make everyone happy. The only thing you can do is make yourself happy and make sure you are always.
People are vicious and cruel they will do anything to get you down to satisfy themselves. Those people are the worst and even though you love them and care for them there opinions are there opinions. Never allow someone to question what you believe in, what you stand up for because they don’t. When you change something in your life and have no support system for your loved ones, you need to find it from somewhere else.
If you don’t you will go back to the way you were and be miserable again. Don’t ever stoop to anyone level. Be yourself and never give up on your dreams. There will be times were it will be a challenge and times it will be easy. Don’t let the challenges get the best of you! Step back and remind yourself why you are doing what you are doing. You have your own back remember that!